HOOLLLLLLLLLLAAA! How are you guys!!! Hope you still remember the name!!!! Anyhow, I know it’s been ages since we have written anything and I totally blame it on the job…but Hey…“HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER” ....we all can tell you how fucked up we have been off late but that I think you all pretty much know that so let’s just cut the slack and give you something exciting to read about..
Splitsvilla!!!! For anyone who has ever had a relation, would have a good understanding as to what this word means, and how it can get to you!!! More emotionally than physically!! No physicality involver here…once you lose him/her, you lose all the physical part ;).
Different people deal with their emotions differently. While some take solace in music, some others find eating therapeutic. Now who’s emotionally strong, a guy or a gurl , is a debatable question but I personally feel that gurls are more deterministic…they will cry, they will sob, they will burn all the things that remind them of their guy, they will talk non-sense but once decided, they get over with it and won’t go back to the guy…Guys on the other hand like to cling on the past, for you haven’t seen a female Devdas isn’t it!!…its men who are shown as SORE LOSERS…and that’s the general perception.
We, at 3pinhole, have a different theory though..Theory that we think everyone realizes but no one talks about. Taboo thing.
And here goes the theory: In a break-up situation the only person who ‘moves-on’ is the one who has got a better deal than the other party.
What that means is …………………Get the guy a HOT(TER), caring gurl (though these 2 words are rarely seen together) AND tell him that his ex got a LOSER ( an IT professional maybe???) and he will never ever think about his ex. Likewise , for a Girl..get her a makeover, a stud AND tell her that her ex is dating a NO-LOOKER and she would be content.
The important part here is the AND cuz that’s the DEAL part. That’s the part which is comforting. Cuz if the ‘AND’ thing does not happen, you still would be caught in the web, you still will think about the other partner.
Personally I feel that this AND factor spoils the relation too. I mean more than enjoying the company of your current partner you either spend time thinking about the what your ex would be doing or you try to compare your partners(current and ex) and that’s where things start going wrong.
Well this is a never ending subject..and maybe after reading/listening to ur comments, we will release a part2 of it….so let us know what you think , how u feel or how u felt ;)
Adios people!!!
Till next time…(and I promise that would be pretty soon)
